Attempts to bring attitudes towards single parents into the nineties,
says Sue Innes, are only part of the solution to a long-running source
of maternal anxiety.
THE name changes say it all really. In the 1940s it was the Scottish
Council for the Unmarried Mother and her Child, with the unfortunate
acronym SCUM. It was renamed the Council for Single Parents in 1973, and
has now, following its recent fiftieth anniversary, become One-Parent
Families, Scotland.
From a group defined by its exception from the married norm, the
inclusiveness of ''families'' is now emphasised. It reflects a change
from the charitable approach of the professional helping the needy, to
one in which single parents are seen as the experts on their needs and
how to meet them.
Conferences run by the organisation also show this shift: in 1954 one
was held on ''The Unmarried Mother of Low Mentality'', a phrase not even
John Redwood could use in public now; in 1968, ''Fatherless Families: Do
we meet their needs?''; but by 1980, ''Single-Parent Priorities -- a
Better Life for Our Children''.
The issues they've campaigned on have not changed as much. ''Although
the position of lone parents has improved greatly in 50 years, some
attitudes remain all too familiar,'' director Sue Robertson comments.
This was reflected in the theme for the fiftieth annual conference,
''From Moral Welfare to Moral Panic'' held last week.
Housing, which has been the front-running policy concern for most of
the past 50 years, is more of a problem now because of the diminished
stock of social housing and rising rent costs.
In the 1940s and 1950s the council had close links with mother and
baby homes and adoption agencies. Now adoption of babies is unusual:
fewer than 100 babies a year are adopted in Scotland, whereas in 1945
and 1965 there were almost 2000 adoptions, most of them likely to have
been babies.
The figures do not reveal the marital status of the mothers. Even in
1970, when premarital sex was no longer so shameful that the evidence
had to be concealed, around one-quarter of babies born to single mothers
were placed for adoption. In a paper given to a conference that year,
there is chilling discussion of whether it's advisable for a mother who
plans adoption to see her baby after birth.
The number of babies available for adoption went into steep decline at
the same time as the social stigma against unmarried mothers eased,
which tells us something about how genuine a choice that was -- as do
women's own accounts. This has not stopped the renewed proposal of
adoption as an alternative to state benefits for young, unmarried
mothers.
Now there are only a handful of mother and baby homes, mainly church
connected. Supported, but more independent, accommodation is provided
through the Walpole Housing Association, one of several now separate
organisations set up by the Scottish Council for Single Parents, and by
some social work departments, but the focus is now on helping vulnerable
single mothers keep their children.
A crucial campaigning issue in the 1970s was the right to retain a
tenancy or stay in the marital home after separation, leading to changes
in council practice and legal change in 1981.
A campaign over the legal rights of ''illegitimate'' children began as
far back as 1918, succeeding in 1986 when legal discrimination against
them was removed and the term itself abolished. In the 1970s and
eighties the moral distinction drawn between unmarried mothers and those
who were on their own because of separation and divorce faded, although
widows are still treated differently.
In the early years of this century there was intense political debate
over how far the state should intervene in child welfare, prompted by
very high levels of infant mortality -- a rate which was twice as high
for the babies of unmarried women. Interestingly, feminist campaigners
for Family Allowances -- first called Maternal Endowments -- excluded
unmarried mothers.
Recent research by Professor Jane Lewis at the London School of
Economics documents ''pendulum swings'' in attitudes and policy. Whereas
since the Child Support Act the main direction of contemporary policy is
to make separated fathers financially support children, she comments
that the 1834 Poor Law Amendment Act opposed any claim by an unmarried
mother for financial support from the father as this would only
encourage female immorality.
Shifts in the state's treatment of lone-mother families, she argues,
mirror ''changes in patterns of sexual morality and views of marriage''.
So, for example, the Finer Report's liberal recommendations in 1974
followed change (in England and Wales) to the divorce law, abandoning
the idea of fault, after which no distinction could be made between
''guilty'' and ''innocent'' ex-wives.
In contrast, she quotes 1920s arguments that support for unmarried
mothers would only ''stimulate illegitimacy'' -- an idea recently
revived by American sociologist Charles Murray. At the time the eugenic
movement was concerned that children of unmarried mothers were more
likely to become criminals. Again there are recent echoes, though not as
yet a repetition of the theme that getting pregnant outside marriage was
evidence that they were ''mentally unfit''. She also quotes the case of
a ''home alone'' widow in 1914, fined for leaving her three children
alone while she went to work to support them.
In the early 1970s, Margaret Bramall, then director of the National
Council for the Unmarried Mother and her Child, told a conference in
Scotland that unmarried mothers were seen as ''a challenge to society,
to our accepted ethical and religious concepts, and to the institution
of marriage itself''.
In 1970, one in 12 births was to a lone mother, as opposed to one in
three now (though a high proportion are living with a partner). A 1970
study for the Scottish Home and Health Department concluded that single
mothers are not different from married mothers. They range from
''impulsive and carefree'' to ''self-critical and guilt-ridden'', their
relationships to the baby's father ranges from casual to the long-term,
and they were as likely to come from happy homes as unhappy.
The problems listed were stereotyping, accommodation, and the chance
to live apart from her own family; and conversely social isolation, lack
of daycare and after-school care, low wages, and dependence on
Supplementary Benefit. Practical problems were exacerbated by ''hostile
social attitudes''. Talk to single mothers today and they'll tell you
much the same thing.
Sue Robertson says ruefully that she's been saying much the same
things for 10 years, since she took the job. ''You see these
long-running myths like girls getting pregnant to jump the housing
queue, and living on benefit with no intention of working. The main
difference I've seen is how cutbacks have affected single parents,
mainly cutbacks in childcare and social security.''
The loss, in 1988, of most grants for household equipment and of the
childcare allowance in Supplementary Benefit, plus the replacement of a
tapered earnings disregard in favour of the formula sum of #15, has made
life harder for single parents, as have changes to how housing benefit
is calculated.
The key issues have stayed similar: the poverty trap, affordable
childcare, how to finance going to college, and housing. Sue Robertson
flips through the record of inquiries that month -- most are looking to
be put in touch with single-parent groups, or ask questions about
maintenance, the CSA, a violent partner, childcare, or money.
However, she also notices a real change in attitudes among single
parents themselves. Probably very few actively choose their situation,
despite current mythology. But ''there are a lot of people who say they
like being single parents and they're getting on fine'', and her
organisation was taken to task last year by members for failing
sufficiently to emphasise the positive dimension.
''It's a viable way to live and bring up children, and they want it to
be recognised as such.''
The focus is now on helping single mothers keep their children
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